as I wait for the clock, to turn 5:30 I answer I few more calls at work, I look at the clock again, and the hand has not move forward from the last moment i looked.
Its hard for single women, or when your at a transition of changing your life from being in a relationship or marriage that you worked so hard at making it work, and even attempting to make it work for the children s sake,
But over time the stress and anxieties is overwhelming and you get sick in tired of being sick and tired that you finally put all the cards on the table and evaluate will this chess move be better for me and my children if a pay more attention to whats going wrong, in this relationship, that's draining every drop of love, out of me,
But over time the stress and anxieties is overwhelming and you get sick in tired of being sick and tired that you finally put all the cards on the table and evaluate will this chess move be better for me and my children if a pay more attention to whats going wrong, in this relationship, that's draining every drop of love, out of me,
But there are women out there that don't even think a second thought about there ex or ex husband. because all the energy they use in the relationship to make things work, failed because when a woman loves they love hard. but when a women is a go geter they put there big girl boots on strap tight, prep there face to beat there face for the beauty they display inside and out, and keep it moving keeping real, telling there children that daddy has move on, you will be visiting your dad on such and such date but be with mommy on the majority of the days,
But being the beautiful super women you are, you make moves makes things happen because now your the head of your household, not being a man and playing his role, but playing a role as a mother taking care of her children because only you have to do this, and with prayer and supplication GOD is always on your side to make things work, never letting go to the point of dis pare not being capable of baring the situation at hand,
being the true diva you are explain to the children even though daddy has another wife or girl friend, I am your mother by all rights, but me being the classy upstanding women I am you respect your fathers new wife or girlfriend,, I know it may be scary at times but rem mommy is just one phone call away, and when you need me I am a hop skip jump away.
Then there the aspect will you have to deal with the evil side of your ex better half, who will throw stones and daggers on purpose to try and get you to feeling that, your worth is not equal to hers, but you like baby take several seats, I am happy I am free. because now i can focus on me getting to know me inside and out, and let you worry about the quality's i fell out of love with and you fell in-love with, because I have been there done that , I really do wish you well if we each as adult play are parts this co parenting thing can really work, because the motto of the mother, the first no tea no shade, no stress no strife and let me be my kids mother and you play your role as your husband new wife. because I play role was deep down in the trenches, having your back, through the highs and the lows, and now were here having to co-parent, and I am still standing tall and strong, because when I got to the point of being fed-up this the song that I sung to myself,, and the badge i wear .because when a women s fed up its nothing you can do about .its like running out of love then its to late to talk about it.;
when a mothers fed up, answer to the stepmother,
by Helen Burnett-Davis
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