betrayal

betrayal

is the breaking or violation of a presumptive contract, trust, or confidence that produces moral and psychological conflict within a relationship amongst individuals, 

An act of betrayal creates a signature of foot prints  in both its victims and its trader,  exhibiting  negative behaviours, thoughts, and feelings. while creating confusion and the one hurt demanding some kind of atonement from this trader who in turn may experience guilt or shame, or remorse

 In the meantime the person having invested all this love, and commitment and sacrificing everything to be with this person, losing sight of all the things in life that meant a great deal to them, such as family, friends, your parents, God, or job, finances, building the person up to someone who you thought would have integrity, to make moves in the right directions, that will benefit not only you but the betrayer as well.

but when you find out this trust was broken violated in a way, feeling hurt to the depths of your inner being
especially when that person has a no care attitude, and you come out feeling like everything you invested in this relationship, was all a beautiful dream turned into a reality of a nightmare of unhappiness.

as the tears stain your pillow, each tear representing the love you once had for this person, each tear defining each milestone you thought the relationship was developing to, in the meantime your happy that you did not make this person your baby daddy without putting a ring on it first.

it may hurt to start over but with prayer, heartfelt prayer asking the lord to uplift the heavy pain and burden you our carrying from a love you thought was going to end up in a matrimonial love fest,enjoying this beautiful time with family and friends,

but that reality is all gone, and replace with the reality of betrayal like many daggers thrown your way, not having the energy to dodge a single blow of hate and dishonestly

after you finish your heartfelt prayers, you get up, looking at life in a better light a new prospective, that darkness turned into a light of happiness, no time for bitterness and throwing shade, not even thinking about giving that person, a single moment of your time, or energy to make you out to be a bitter person, lacking love and making it hard for the next person to show you true love without a shadow of a doubt having faith for the assured things to come that you will be blessed with someone that will honor, and respect you, and love you, like a person should,

now you are standing tall because you prayed and claimed happiness in your heart and your life, and being observant for the next time, observing the early warning signs if a love is not going to be something worth working for and sacrificing for. because by you showing love not hate to this perpetrator, not only are you following in the lords footsteps to love thy neighbor as oneself, 

your finally telling the latchkey to give back the keys of your heart because your not worthy of it, while giving them the side wink, keeping it moving with know turning and looking back,  just being happy and grateful that you found out the love you thought was beautiful and kind turn out to be a betrayal of a

Double crossing  deceive by double-dealing. deliberate collusion of a false love of betrayl

betrayal by  helen burnett-davis