validation

the act of validating; finding or testing the truth of something to make valid or substantiate; confirming approval. of oneself  or having others confirm who we are or who they think they would like us to be, never let others validate or assume you being  strong and healthy either in condition or principle. determine your nothing and your thoughts mean nothing.

We as human beings being validated by our own self worth .we often sometimes

take to heart when others say hurtful words and make mean comments about your self worth as being nothing but a joke. To brandish your name and your gifts of talent or how you live, in a way that is demeaning to the inner core. of 
your being within. But to let such constant rituals destroy what you are and who you are as a person, will tear a whole in anyone mind state if you let them.
TO validate oneself is to value yourself, and honor the life you have chosen to live only if it doesn't offend anyone, bother anyone or put there reputation out there in a way that would harm who they are as a  person. When I think of Validation I think of the accomplishments I have made in my 41 years on this earth ,and the talents I have  the validations I have from my inner circle of people who truly love me. And you know when you are loved by the actions of others around you. love is not haughty, scornful, mean ,degrading or harmful, love is the true agape love that Christians should have ,know matter how you feel about a person, who that person may love, but  unconditional love that family and friends should have for one another, and when you have that in your life that validates everything and everyone.   so always be mindful of validity of your worth  confirming to your self I am beautiful, I am valid and i do matter

validation
by Helen Davis