betrayal of a mother

Betrayal 

 betrayal of mother  

 by treachery or disloyalty:

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to be unfaithful in guarding, maintaining, or fulfilling: a word of bond to betray a trust.

3.

to disappoint the hopes or expectations of; be disloyal to: to betray one's friends.

4.

to reveal or disclose in violation of confidence: to betray a secret.

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to reveal unconsciously (something one would preferably conceal): 

To go through the pain and hard work of bringing a child into this crazy world or system of things 

is a very beautiful thing.

To carry this beautiful child in your womb for 9 months, feeling every emotion there is to experience. such as morning sickness, getting your grub on , having crazy symptoms, taking good naps  and just dozing off those are the best naps ever.

when this beautiful gift from GOD is born, you fall so in-love with this bundle of joy

as time pass and the child gets older, and more siblings come, the love you have for your children should be overwhelming with such unconditional love.

But there our some who have no natural affection for there children and careless what happens to them, even when there adults and have there own family

This when the game changes when some mothers are so selfish and think about them self, that there kids, well being is up for grabs.

Some only show you love when they want something from you and you having that unconditional love for your mother, you are willing to do anything for them, no matter if you go without. and when you do, you catch yourself always trying to play catch up for a love that, was never a bond in the first place,

there was a time in the 70s to the 80s and mid 90 when all you saw was grandparents stepping up taking care of there grandchildren as if they gave birth to them themselves.

the nurturing is from the grandparents love, and that's how allot of children were raised back then, and when they have children of there own, they go out of there way, to love there own children, because you do not want your children to go through what you had to endure, as a child.

Then when your mother do come around, they pay more attention to the grandchildren trying to go out of there way to makeup to them what they should have done for you as a child.

many nights kids would cry, to be with there mothers but some put men before there children,drugs before there children, money, and what ever else you can think of, kids who were so blessed and grateful to have grandparents to raise them was truly a blessing, and some kids were not so fortunate, it was not the lord that put them in that situation it was the parents who did not want to step up to the plate and be the true parents in the first place, because quite as its kept they were given love bec if that was not the case the grandparents would not of step up

IN this wicked system of things, this is Satan world, so things happen it like a dice game you throw the die up against a wall you never know what number its going to land on, same thing with life,

So when these children have there own family s, even though there mom or dad was not there, they give them some respect because of the love they were taught, and the unconditional agape love that Christ Jesus admonished them to take part in.

Some parents have so much betrayal built up inside the that they do not know how to love,or show kindness, and do whatever it is possible to make you think they love you by pretending because they know you would do anything for them i mean anything

some even sort to doing things so deep and so low down, that others around you cannot believe the dishonesty and the deceit that you have been presented to you on a silver platter and you are suppose to conform and follow through and you do because of the love you always wanted from your mom, most of the time the dad is not around so that's why i say mother.

And every bit of the hate and disloyalty in there fiber feel that you should be doing for them despite the horrible things they have inflicted in your life, you better not say no to anything they ask for, because they know the type of  kid you are because of the love and stability that there parents instill in you, it was once instill in them as well but when disloyal, dishonestly and betrayal comes into the picture, and men as well that was always put before, you. you never know could of been abusive to you as well even though it was not physically the next step after that could of been. but having strong faith in the almighty GOD and his son Christ Jesus, always protected you because he have made the truth your own and develop a close relationship with him as the moment you were able to understand who the lord was.

so being betrayed by the love of your mother,and they doing nothing to repair this bond, is a sad thing you deal with, that's why god solved the problem long ago, and place certain people in the seasons of your life to help you to bare and cope with the deceptions of a mother you thought was true.

betrayals of a mother by Helen Burnett=Davis

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